My appreciation of Good Girls, Sluts, Fucktoys

icon Joe Random Pervert

In my kinky mind, there are certain features, behaviours or other things a woman can do that turn her into what I think of a proper woman, a good girl, or whatever term one wants to use. For me those are more or less interchangeable also with proper slut or proper fucktoy...

To give some examples (not an exhaustive list) of what I am thinking of:

  • wearing shiny, skintight clothes [even in public]

  • enduring the discomfort of high [platform] heels

  • wearing corsets either as under or outerwear, particularly properly laced real steel-boned corsets

  • maintaining a shapely body and showing it off with figure-hugging clothes [not naked!]

  • putting effort in her make-up

  • various forms of body modifications (piercings, silicone implants, ...)

  • learning + performing pole dance / belly dance / table dance / gogo dance

  • working on her flexibility / contortion

  • showing submissive behaviour towards a dominant partner [of any gender]

  • working as a (amateur or professional) fetish model, camgirl

  • training her deep throat skills, or really any skill that improves/extends her sexual capabilities

  • having a very strong sex drive up to sex addiction

In this context, it doesn't really matter if she does that for me. I can feel a very deep appreciation, or even adoration for a woman who matches [parts of] my definition of proper behavior, of being what I consider a good girl. This doesn't mean that I would automatically sexually desire her. It just makes me happy to see that there are some females out there who share at least some of my kinky thoughts about what is proper dress and/or proper behaviour.

I'm of course not a shrink, but I guess it has something to do with feeling that I'm not alone with my dreams/desires, and that not the entire rest of the world fails to understand me and my kinky side. It re-affirms to me that I'm not completely crazy, or at least that there are others who share my craziness and that we as a group think of the majority of the vanilla people out there that they are the weird ones, but not we/us with our kinkiness

Now don't get me wrong: I of course appreciate and adore any of those properties in a partner, where I'm then the primary beneficiary of her kinky amazing-ness. But even if she is not my partner, we don't know each other at all and even if I'd never even phantasize of ever having anything with her, then it still makes me very happy every time I see a good girl out there, somewhere. Thanks to all of you good girls out there, you bring joy to my life.