My take on sex toys

In this post I'll try to summarize my interest in sex toys.

My main interest in sex toys are toys for the female physique. And there it's not something in specific, but basically whatever pushes her buttons. Whether that's plugs, love balls, [remotely controlled] vibrating toys, dildos, you name it.

My main use case for those is to turn her on, or to keep her excited. To fuel her state of arousal. To make her horny and in need of sexual release. And to eventually provide her that release, ideally under my approval/authorization.

I particularly enjoy using such sex toys in covert situations. Like in an everyday situation where she is wearing some toy inserted in some part of her body. Nobody knows about it except she and I. But she can feel it all the time, knowing that it is a token of her body belonging to me. Ideally that turns her on at a mental level, beyond the physical stimulation. She knows she's a good girl if she has her pussy / butt / ... stuffed with a token of her master.

Some of the particularly exciting situations involving sex toys I have had the pleasure to experience:

• my partner wearing love balls (aka ben-wa balls) during her work day, to university, or other every-day situations

• my partner wearing love balls during vaginal intercourse. I guess many women would think "ouch" but everyone is different. The specific woman really enjoyed it. For me, the feeling was "ok"; it was great to see what it did to her, though.

• my partner wearing a vaginal plug (or dildo panties) while riding pillion on my motorbike

• my partner wearing love balls while riding pillion on my motorbike. As usual, the experience is different from person to person. If it doesn't do anything for her, it doesn't do nearly as much for me. If she likes it, cobble stone roads of course are the best track to use :)

• my partner wearing love balls during a spanking, where each impact translates to vibrations of the balls

• my partner wearing a remote-controlled vibrating toy while we're out for dinner, in the cinema, or the like

• my partner wearing a butterfly vibrator strapped between her legs, a TENS unit attached to her buttocks and a ball gag while preparing food in the kitchen (side note: on high heels, wearing latex stockings, a latex dress, laced into a corset and wearing opera length latex gloves for the additional challenge). It was as much bliss for me watching her, as it was for her experiencing it.

When I have my partner around, I don't need any sex toys for my self. My partner is supposed to be my ideal sex toy. She should be willing to please me in whichever way I enjoy, and she should share my joy by knowing how happy she makes me by serving me. And she should thrive on the recognition, thanks, love and rewards I can give her in return. Playing with my female sex toy in this context also is not limited to fucking her, but any kind of playing in the sense of playing like a child plays with a toy. In this context I can play with her arousal, denial, satisfaction. Potentially also with her embarrassment [in public].

I really do think a woman that allows me to play with her this way is the only toy I need as an adult.